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I'm hoping there might be at least a couple of you that might have either experienced the results of counselling or therapy, either directly (you as the patient), or seen a loved one benefit from it.
I go through bouts of various forms mental health issues, and I'm not the person I want to be, or know I could be.
I've always been hard on myself, and am known to be a bit of a perfectionist. Whilst in some scenarios this can be a good thing, it's mostly exhausting, and it also makes those closest to me feel that they can't meet the expectations I set of myself (but which I totally don't expect from others).
I've also never been able to celebrate achievements and/or accomplishments. Upon completion I never celebrate the moment, I just look ahead to the next challenge, which is totally ungratifying. I can't help but feel that isn't what life is about?
I'm not much of a reader, so self-help books won't get read. I have 10's of books I have bought in the past which have never been opened.
This isn't a sob story, and I'm not looking for attention. I just want to know if it genuinely helps. Success rates. Hear the positive difference it has made to others. I just want to be the best version of me that I can be, for my loved ones more than anything else.
I go through bouts of various forms mental health issues, and I'm not the person I want to be, or know I could be.
I've always been hard on myself, and am known to be a bit of a perfectionist. Whilst in some scenarios this can be a good thing, it's mostly exhausting, and it also makes those closest to me feel that they can't meet the expectations I set of myself (but which I totally don't expect from others).
I've also never been able to celebrate achievements and/or accomplishments. Upon completion I never celebrate the moment, I just look ahead to the next challenge, which is totally ungratifying. I can't help but feel that isn't what life is about?
I'm not much of a reader, so self-help books won't get read. I have 10's of books I have bought in the past which have never been opened.
This isn't a sob story, and I'm not looking for attention. I just want to know if it genuinely helps. Success rates. Hear the positive difference it has made to others. I just want to be the best version of me that I can be, for my loved ones more than anything else.